Going through a cycle of life

There is nothing quite like it. Holding a grandchild for the first time is like holding a child for the first time. It is a joyful, meaningful, humbling experience, one that reminds a person of the cycles of life.

Grandbabies are special. They are life's portable generators, little souls who lift our spirits and give us a boost when we need it. They remind us that the world, despite its many problems, is still a beautiful place.

My wife, Cheryl, and I got a reminder this week when we met Sarah Elizabeth Heldt, the first child of our son, Matthew, and his wife, Mikayla. We enjoyed a life experience that many people, particularly those in large families, take for granted. Born on November 25 in Oceanside, California, Sarah came into the world days before and days after two great-grandfathers passed away. She is the newest leaf on a family tree that already has many branches and deep roots that stretch from coast to coast.

Cheryl, the proud grandma, was particularly excited to see Sarah. She gave her a gift, an ornate Christmas stocking the new arrival will no doubt treasure for years to come. Our daughter Amy made the stocking in Puerto Rico and sent it to Cheryl to complete and bring on our trip to Southern California. Cheryl added Sarah's name to the stocking after her name, a closely guarded secret, was announced at her birth.

Matthew and Mikayla wasted no time hanging the stocking next to their own above their fireplace. They added another leaf to the tree.

As they did, they brought everything into focus. They reminded two grandparents that another generation had formed and was now going through its own motions. They brought everything full circle.

Sarah is our second grandchild. The first, Stella Irene Knipe, is now a six-year-old who snow skis, plays hockey, and develops her artistic side in North Idaho. She is growing much too fast for her grandparents.

We hope to have more grandchildren in the future. For now, though, we will cherish what we have. We will celebrate two granddaughters at a joyous time of the year and savor another cycle of life.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours!